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Expert chat: Enthusiastic Consent & Conditional Consent (Wed 21st February)

Hey everyone!

On Wednesday 21st Feb at 6.30pm, Sarah our expert, will be running an expert chat about Enthusiastic Consent and Conditional Consent.

Sarah is the co-founder of Scarlet Ladies, a community of women with the aim to destigmatise and normalise the conversation around female sexuality.

Suffering from post traumatic stress disorder after experiencing a number of traumas, including rape, Sarah is reclaiming her body by engaging in bodybuilding and powerlifting. Taking back control of her sexuality, she is currently remaining abstinent. Working and campaigning with other women for the sexual empowerment of women has been an integral part of her healing journey.

Come along and join us! Find out more here
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Vanilla features: have your say

As we move to our new boards software, Vanilla, we'll have a few new features at our disposal. We're keen to hear what you all think about them, so head here to have your say over how we'll use (or not use) some of the new features. Fill out the form before Wednesday the 21st to tell us your thoughts and have the option of joining our testing team!
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The Great Boards Migration

Great news! We're moving to new discussion boards software. Head here for the full announcement.
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Post of The Month

One-in-a-million is our Post of The Month winner voted by the community for the following post:

"Just a bit of fun here if you could create an advent calendar what would you put in it and why.

For me you would still get chocolate 😆😆
But inside each door is a task for the day. Something that includes you helping/talking to others, doing something festive and spreading Christmas cheer
For example

1. Tell your parents/carers you love them
2. Say hello when passing an OAP (that might be the only thing someone says to them all week)
3. Watch a Christmas movie
4. Help someone in need e.g put some spare change in a charity box, buy a warm drink for the homeless person who sits on the corner, dothe washing up ha ha ha😂
5 make hot chocolate
6. Visit your grandparents (if you don’t already) They will more than likely love to see you.
7. Sing a Christmas song with a friend
8. Dress up in something Christmasy when you do your shopping.

You get the idea 😂😉 my reason for this is to get people in the mood and understand what Christmas actually means.

What would yours have and why."
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Video Woes & Ipod Issues

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    Does anyone know how to retrieve vids that have been deleted by mistake on the iPod nano fifth generation? Apparently I'd need to download something but not sure? Wish to have these vids back (or have them back in order to choose which ones to be more specific) as they made me laugh/smile bring back happy memories, sorry if that sounded cheesy but you know what I mean.

    Something that's not quite positive-but not too bad nonetheless- is the three vids I uploaded onto youtube back in 2011-'13 period. A little too scared to look at the comments below let alone watch myself as I fear nasty comments or mockery from other people on the internet. If you type my name in (Gemma Larkin) you'll see three vids oof a young woman with dark hair in a clip with a matching curly hair piece at the back, sporting glasses and in two of them fake tan (though it might not entirely show in the vids though I'm wearing some) and I'm either eating an ice cream quickly, doing an impression of a sketch show character and...can't quite remember the other vid. I fear people have put malicious crap below.

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    Not being pushy as there's other cases on here but as this is stressing me out a little I will need some feedback.


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      Hi Gemma,

      I've moved this thread over into Net & Tech for you - hopefully someone will be able to help you out here
      - ‘One small positive thought in the morning can change your whole day’


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        Thanks sorry if i may be coming across as naggy none of it is meant in that way. Just stressed. Any who thanks again for taking time to read it & move it somewhere more appropriate. I hope to God someone will help me.


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