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Chatwee Update

Update - There's been some technical difficulties launching Chatwee onto our website so we will not be moving to Chatwee on Thursday.

As soon as we fix this issue, we'll announce another date for launching. We're really sorry for the delay in Chatwee, thanks so much for your patience.
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Post of The Month (September)

Maisy is our Post of The Month winner voted by the community for the following post:

"Hey Shaunie,

​I care. I really relate to what you have been experiencing with the house falling apart, and things not getting fixed due to general shame of the state of the house and not knowing where to begin fixing things or who to contact (you don't want to come across rogue tradesmen). Not even having adequate heating and hot water. And clutter. Everywhere. It's horrible to live in such circumstances, I know. It's hard as well when you see everyone else living a 'normal' life and yet being unable to talk about your situation."
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But who's there to listen to me?

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  • But who's there to listen to me?

    Hi guys got a lot of different stuff going on right now. I just need a friendly face that wil just listen to me.

    When I was at college we had a mentor and she was really good. She was professional but also really down to earth and bubbly so anyone could connect with her. But I've left college now and I seriously have no one to listen to me. I feel my friends have all got there own problems and when I've tried to say about what's happening they seem down themselves or sound as if they aren't actually listening. They do say they are here for me too but with stuff going on I can understand not wanting to talk about more problems. And let's be honest sometimes it's easier to talk to someone whose not actually involved in your everyday life (if you get what I mean)

    I love my family but they go really protective of me or the complet opposite and are just like get on with it type of thing. Plus there are things going on that I know they won't understand or over react with.

    Sorry 🙁


  • #2
    Morning emma

    ​sounds like you feel quiet lonely ,just want you too know I'm always here to leaned a ear x

    Sometimes the questions are complicated and the answers are simple.
    Dr. Seuss


    • #3
      Cheers horsemad


      • #4
        Hi Emma,
        Sorry to hear that you feel that there's nobody that will listen to you
        It sounds like there's a lot going on for you right now, would you like to tell us about it and we can try and help you out? or sometimes it's just better to let it all out.
        You're a ghost at most
        A set of empty bones
        Searching for anything and everything to make you feel whole


        • #5
          Hi Emma, how are you getting on today? Anything you need to talk about?

          Always remember we're all to hear to listen and give support where we can.

          Sending hugs
          Nikki x


          • #6
            Hi guys I know it's been a while I just want tonsay thank you for replying. I decided to take some time out from here just to gather my thoughts and have a refresh.

            I'm feeling quite a lot better for that to be honest

            There was a lot going on at the time and I didn't know who to turn to. I never really do to be honest.
            Sorry I didn't reply
            Thank you so much Xx
            Last edited by One-in-a-million; 14-02-2017, 11:17 PM.


            • #7
              I am here to listen to you if you want xxx
              'Why are you trying to fit in be born to stand out'


              • #8
                Thanks Lostsense I'm feeling quite a lot better than what I did. Thanks
                I think it was a mixture of work, my nan, friends and family.

                Everything seems to have settled down for now.
                I feel like someone pressed my reset button lol 😂


                • #9
                  It was me 😉 I pressed your reset button for ya 😉
                  'Why are you trying to fit in be born to stand out'


                  • #10
                    Can always count on you Lostsense
                    And you can count on me Xx


                    • #11
                      'Why are you trying to fit in be born to stand out'


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