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​I care. I really relate to what you have been experiencing with the house falling apart, and things not getting fixed due to general shame of the state of the house and not knowing where to begin fixing things or who to contact (you don't want to come across rogue tradesmen). Not even having adequate heating and hot water. And clutter. Everywhere. It's horrible to live in such circumstances, I know. It's hard as well when you see everyone else living a 'normal' life and yet being unable to talk about your situation."
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Stick Your Fingers Up Your Bum To Make Yourself Have better Orgasms!

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  • Stick Your Fingers Up Your Bum To Make Yourself Have better Orgasms!


    Now I feel I must make this very clear before I start. I AM NOT A PILLOW BITER!

    I have heard off many people on this message board that sticking your fingers up your b/f's bum just before he cums will make him cum 'better, more, etc'. Does anyone know if it's possible to do it for yourself when masturbating? And if so how far up do you stick your fingers?


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    You could get yourself a small vibrator <IMG alt="image" SRC="">
    A wise man is always happy to be corrected


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      Why do you stress you are "NOT A PILLOW BITER", does it matter what your sexual orientation is? You are asking a sensible question, but your comment could be offensive to people.

      If you stick your fingers up your bum, when you wank, it is pleasurable because you can stimulate your prostate gland. This is situated about 2 - 3 cm up your bum towards the front of your body, try it you might enjoy it, to make it easier lie on your side, after putting vaseline on the finger you are going to use. Remember to wash your hands thoroughly afterwards.


      • #4

        You will also find the male "g-spot" situated externally between the base of your testicles and your anus! Gentle massaging of this area will also increase stimualtion!

        Happy orgasms!

        HAPPY 2001 !
        Alan London


        • #5
          I am a male. I did it when I was younger all the time. If I stuck a dildo up my bum I would get a really hard rod....which does not necessarily make a better ejaculation but it does feel good while spanking the monkey. I tried it recently and it was not as good though. My libido has sunk somewhat in the last few years. I think if you are having a high sex drive, give it a go....get a rock hard rod!


          • #6
            Thanks for that, but this thread is nearly eleven years old.

            Worth looking at the dates of previous posts before you add something.

            Welcome to thesite though!
            Did you ever go to a place - I think it was called Norway?
            That was one of mine. Won an award, you know. Lovely crinkly edges...


            • #7
              i cant think of anything worse than sticking my fingers up a hairy blokes arse


              • #8
                well, maybe i can, but its got to be pretty high up there on the list of things id rather not do


                • #9
                  Originally posted by SuzyCreamcheese View Post
                  i cant think of anything worse than sticking my fingers up a hairy blokes arse
                  Pretty much .

                  I've been tempted a few times, and then I just go, 'ew, no'.
                  ...there is a crack in everything, that's how the light gets in.

                  'Franki is a wise one. Even if she hides it well sometimes' ~ Scary Monster
                  'that's because you're perfect Franki' ~ Broken-Angel
                  'I salute you Franki' ~ **helen**
                  'I agree with everything that Franki has said' ~ Melian
                  'You're a genius' ~ piccolo
                  'Franki's right as usual' ~ James


                  • #10
                    Originally posted by SuzyCreamcheese View Post
                    i cant think of anything worse than sticking my fingers up a hairy blokes arse
                    Can you hold me like you held someone you shouldn't have let go?
                    Can you keep me deep inside like the regrets that burned a hole?
                    Can you love me like you loved someone you loved so long ago?


                    • #11
                      Last edited by Big Gay; 14-01-2011, 12:41 PM.
                      I hold it true, whate'er befall; I feel it, when I sorrow most;
                      'Tis better to have loved and lost Than never to have loved at all.


                      • #12
                        i need to know what you said


                        • #13
                          I've put my condom-clad finger up a bloke's bum before, he went wild for it. I don't really see the issue with this, if it's done hygienically.
                          Never say no to a HUG


                          • #14
                            i know loads of people like it and good for them. Im just grateful that my OH doesnt want me to do it to him either. It feels too dominant for me


                            • #15
                              Originally posted by SuzyCreamcheese View Post
                              i need to know what you said
                              me too
                              I know why the caged bird sings, Only joy comes from song
                              She's so rare and beautiful to others, Why not just set her free
                              So she can fly, fly, fly
                              Spreadin' her wings and her song
                              Let her fly, fly fly
                              For the whole world to see


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