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"my recent post and a comment from another user has made me realise that self care is so important.

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Take a walk and admire whats around me ( take as long as needed)
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make a hot drink and just sit down with a film.

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  • Female mastabation

    Hiya everyone,

    I'm new here but there's nothing like jumping in at the deep end!

    I'm single at the moment and haven't had sex for 6 months now and as you can imagine i'm feeling a tad fustrated and would like to satisfy myself.

    The thing is I've never done it before and I haven't got a clue where to start.

    Can anyone give me any pointers (without using vibrators etc)


    posh xx
    i'm not a lesbian, you're just ugly

  • #2
    Get yourself relaxed, and then simply touch wherever and however feels good until you've had enough.

    It's hardly rocket science. :D
    Black Knight

    God grant me the serenity to accept the people I cannot change, the courage to change the one I can, and the wisdom to know it's me.


    • #3
      whack on sum porn and flick ur bean till ur glowin wiv radience lmao sorry im fuked
      who u lovein?who u wanna be huggin huh?who u wit ?who u wanna b fu*king? one!!! lets get dirty!!


      • #4
        Take some quiet time to explore your body and what feels best for you - I don't think it's an exact science and seems to vary from female to female, like it does with male masturbation and men.


        • #5
          just touch yourself up.just experiment different techniques etc.You are the only person that knows wat is happening so just experiment.


          • #6
            I didnt know so many girls actually did it. All the girls I've spoke to say its disgusting and would never do it.
            ~*darius mad!*~


            • #7
              Originally posted by naughtybutnice
              All the girls I've spoke to say its disgusting and would never do it.
              They're lying.


              • #8
                just lick your finger and then GENTLY rub your clitoris area.


                • #9
                  Originally posted by naughtybutnice
                  I didnt know so many girls actually did it. All the girls I've spoke to say its disgusting and would never do it.
                  They are very definately lying. It's no different to a guy doing it to you. Just feels good. Reliees the frustration and what orgasm could be disgusting? Just doesn't figure.

                  As for the topic...why are you so against vibrators. They are great little things which make masturbation so easy. But it's prob not a good idea until you've learnt what you like with your hands. You can get spoilt.

                  Basically just do whatever you've had done whilst in a rel and has felt nice.
                  Don't try to understand me, just love me.


                  • #10
                    maybe i can show u? lol
                    You laugh because I'm different,
                    I laugh because you're all the same!


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                      • #12
                        ALL girls do it. And if they dont (to quote Tracey Cox), they should be doing. It helps you learn about your own body so you can teach a boyfried how to please you. How can he possibly know if you dont know yourself?
                        Its also good for your skin - keeps it healthy and glowing, basically has all the benefits of sex without the STIs, pregnancy and emotional worries.


                        • #13
                          hey well i am new to all this.. and well i know how to mastabute but i just cant do it to myself... i mean i know what feels good and everything but i just can't do it to myself.. the only way i can do it myself if by using a sex toy (a butterfly).. so what am i doing wrong? I would try the tooth brush but i just have a normal one..


                          • #14
                            its probably better to start a new thread about this, because this one is 2 and a half years old. I would expect the original poster has got the hang of it by now.


                            • #15
                              Just get a rampant rabbit! They rule! (just about to buy a new one myself!)


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