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Support Circles on Sundays

Hey everyone,

We're going to be running support circles once a month on a Sunday! At the moment they run on Tuesdays, but for one of those Tuesdays, each month they will be running on a Sunday instead.

This next Sunday support circle will be on 26 November. If you'd like to come along, (sign up by completing the form here )
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Chatwee Update

Update - There's been some technical difficulties launching Chatwee onto our website so we will not be moving to Chatwee on Thursday.

As soon as we fix this issue, we'll announce another date for launching. We're really sorry for the delay in Chatwee, thanks so much for your patience.
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Post of The Month (September)

Maisy is our Post of The Month winner voted by the community for the following post:

"Hey Shaunie,

​I care. I really relate to what you have been experiencing with the house falling apart, and things not getting fixed due to general shame of the state of the house and not knowing where to begin fixing things or who to contact (you don't want to come across rogue tradesmen). Not even having adequate heating and hot water. And clutter. Everywhere. It's horrible to live in such circumstances, I know. It's hard as well when you see everyone else living a 'normal' life and yet being unable to talk about your situation."
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    Last week I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend about 4 times we did it last week without any protection and all of them times he cummed inside me and on Friday just went I was meant to come on my period Friday but I came on my period on Monday but ever since last week I have kept getting loads of the pregancy signs but a few days ago I done about three. Pregancy tests all came back negative but it was two early to do them since you have to wait two weeks but ever since I keep getting bad belly pains and normally when I'm on my period I don't get any belly pains and I'm not sure when to do a another pregancy test but I can't be pregnant if I have had my period can I? So just need some advice it will be appreciated x

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    Was your period normal? I.e normal length and flow?

    If it was it's very unlikely you're pregnant. However if you're still worried you could test again in a few days?
    "Truely independent person who doesn't do quotes, just dates".. (29.04.17)


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      As independent asked, was your cycle like regular(same flow, length etc.) did you have to use more tampons/pads or less than you usually do? sometimes we can have more cramps than usual and can be later than usual and in fact if you were already worried afterwards that can stress can even cause a delay.
      if you have had your period it can make it less likely that you are pregnant but in the next week or so I would take another test or two as that would of been a long enough wait and check. if they also say no and you're still concerned it might be worthwhile going to the doctor as they can confirm for sure whether you are or not.
      if you have any more questions or need further support never hesitate to post or ask anyone

      Best wishes
      "Weave me a rope that will pull me through these impossible times"
      ~ Tim Finn

      - LAINE


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        Hi Soph9090

        Sorry to hear that you're worried about this but I understand that it can be a stressful situation to be in.

        As LaneBoi suggested, I would recommend taking another pregnancy test once two weeks has passed as there really is no other sure way to tell. If this pregnancy test comes back negative then there's no need to worry at all as they are nearly 100% accurate. If you do get a positive, then there's lots of ways you can deal with it and you can always come back here for advice.

        Until you can take the test I would try not to worry about it too much, it's very possible that a lot of your symptoms are occurring because you're stressing yourself out. Also most pregnancy symptoms don't occur in the first couple of weeks so I wouldn't worry too much about them right now.

        Feel free to come back here if you need anymore help.

        Lals x


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