Essential support for under 25s


1 of 3 < >

Support Circles on Sundays

Hey everyone,

We're going to be running support circles once a month on a Sunday! At the moment they run on Tuesdays, but for one of those Tuesdays, each month they will be running on a Sunday instead.

This next Sunday support circle will be on 26 November. If you'd like to come along, (sign up by completing the form here )
2 of 3 < >

Chatwee Update

Update - There's been some technical difficulties launching Chatwee onto our website so we will not be moving to Chatwee on Thursday.

As soon as we fix this issue, we'll announce another date for launching. We're really sorry for the delay in Chatwee, thanks so much for your patience.
3 of 3 < >

Post of The Month (September)

Maisy is our Post of The Month winner voted by the community for the following post:

"Hey Shaunie,

​I care. I really relate to what you have been experiencing with the house falling apart, and things not getting fixed due to general shame of the state of the house and not knowing where to begin fixing things or who to contact (you don't want to come across rogue tradesmen). Not even having adequate heating and hot water. And clutter. Everywhere. It's horrible to live in such circumstances, I know. It's hard as well when you see everyone else living a 'normal' life and yet being unable to talk about your situation."
(Click for full post )
See more
See less

Abortion and Alcohol

This topic is closed.
  • Filter
  • Time
  • Show
Clear All
new posts

  • Abortion and Alcohol


    I am having an abortion and want to know whether drinking alcohol is ok or will it cause problems. Obviously i won't be drinking around the time of my abortion but i am going on holiday next week and because the abortion is not for a few weeks i just wondered whether a drink or two would be ok?

    What do you guys think?


  • #2
    I don't see why it should be a problem as you're not having an abortion for a few weeks. I'd say if you were ambivalent, then you might want to abstain due to the risks of foetal alcohol syndrome etc, but you sound pretty sure. Obviously, depending on the kind of anaesthetic you're having, you might want to lay off the alcohol after the abortion, and if you're having conscious sedation or a general anaesthetic, then it's nil by mouth for at least 6 hours.
    "Don't sweat the petty things and don't pet the sweaty things" George Carlin


    • #3
      I'm not having any aneasthetic as I am having the tablets. Thank you for your help and not judging me.



      • #4
        ultimetely it's your decision but be prepared for a bit of depression afterwards


        • #5
          It shouldnt be a problem for you to drink weeks before you have an abortion , but i agree, that you will suffer with depression
          Catch a falling star, put it in your pocket, never let it fade away...
          catch a falling star and put it in your pocket, save it for a rainy day...


          • #6
            Originally posted by LilMizME
            but i agree, that you will suffer with depression
            Only if people force that idea into her head.

            If you want an abortion, and thats the right thing for you to do, then go for it. Make sure you've got someone to talk to about stuff, and you will be fine. Good luck. Have a good holiday and enjoy yourself. :D
            'You can't cage my lyrics!'


            • #7
              Will there ever be an abortion thread without scaremongering or blanket side effects because the friend of a friend of a friend of my aunt's dog felt depressed afterwards?

              Jeez, someone's body is going to go from suddenly being pregnant to not being pregnant, you know, it can take a couple of weeks for the person to feel themselves again, and that includes feeling emotional, tearful, up and down etc, it doesn't mean that an abortion will equal depression.

              Best of luck with the medical route BNS, I hope it goes smoothly for you and enjoy your holiday.
              "Don't sweat the petty things and don't pet the sweaty things" George Carlin


              • #8
                It your choice and your choice only, remember that because you will come across a lot of prejudice.

                I would just say ask your doctor whats the best thing to do

                All the best xxxx
                "It's difficult to believe in yourself because the idea of self is an artificial construction. You are, in fact, part of the glorious one-ness of the universe. Everything beautiful in the world is within you. No-one really feels self-confident deep down because it's an artifical idea. Liberate yourself from that idea that people are watching you”


                • #9
                  Post partum depression

                  I think that they were saying that she may feel depression due to post partum depression. Just because the pregnancy is terminated through abortion doesnt mean that the female body doesnt go through the same things when regaining hormonal balance.


                  • #10
                    Gonna close this as it's v old.
                    Delicious Ambiguity


                    • #11
                      No it'll be like I don't give a feck, fuck off, grrrr
                      I only said Jehova!



                      Hide this page

                      Local Advice Finder

                      Find local services

                      The Mix. Registered charity number: 1048995