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Support Circles on Sundays

Hey everyone,

We're going to be running support circles once a month on a Sunday! At the moment they run on Tuesdays, but for one of those Tuesdays, each month they will be running on a Sunday instead.

This next Sunday support circle will be on 26 November. If you'd like to come along, (sign up by completing the form here )
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Chatwee Update

Update - There's been some technical difficulties launching Chatwee onto our website so we will not be moving to Chatwee on Thursday.

As soon as we fix this issue, we'll announce another date for launching. We're really sorry for the delay in Chatwee, thanks so much for your patience.
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Post of The Month (September)

Maisy is our Post of The Month winner voted by the community for the following post:

"Hey Shaunie,

​I care. I really relate to what you have been experiencing with the house falling apart, and things not getting fixed due to general shame of the state of the house and not knowing where to begin fixing things or who to contact (you don't want to come across rogue tradesmen). Not even having adequate heating and hot water. And clutter. Everywhere. It's horrible to live in such circumstances, I know. It's hard as well when you see everyone else living a 'normal' life and yet being unable to talk about your situation."
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    ok,after a wierd convo with a person last week, i had to come on her+find out the answer to this.

    basically, you know when you can go to organised, by special companies, swinging parties....are there ones that just let you watch other people have sex (for the thrill, turn on, etc) and if so, what are these called??

    i told her that you could go to a singing party+just watch, no pressure,but she didnt believe me!
    ~Yes, she caught my eye as i walked on by, she could see from my face that i was fucking high!~

  • #2
    As thought the sweet, innocent people on here would know an answer like that!!!!

    I think some swingers parties do let people just watch - but of course, dogging allows that too (I think).


    • #3
      Yes there are places that let you do this. Some are funny about you just watching though.
      It's swinging btw not singing


      • #4
        there are swinging paries that allow you just to watch. i saw one on a documentary that had a room with one-way glass in it so that people could stand behind it.

        people who just watch are called 'voyeurs' btw.


        • #5
          thanx for the info. Cant believe i wrote singing, lol!

          to carry onthe thread; has anyone ever been to a swinging party+if so, what was it like?
          ~Yes, she caught my eye as i walked on by, she could see from my face that i was fucking high!~


          • #6
            id rather be having sex tbh


            • #7
              Originally posted by MrG
              id rather be having sex tbh
              Yep same here...

              Swinging party to watch or play sounds fucking boring to me...


              • #8
                Go dogging?
                "Don't be jealous that I've been chatting online with babes all day. Besides, we both know that I'm training to be a cage fighter."


                • #9
                  There's never any pressure for newbies to have sex at swinging parties (and it can also be difficult for men to perform the first time they go) but the reputable swinging places take a dim view on those who just go to watch.

                  The playing that goes on in some fetish clubs are slightly more open to it as whipping etc happens in the designated zones.
                  "Don't sweat the petty things and don't pet the sweaty things" George Carlin


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