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  • Lucy307
    replied to Crying in the dark
    Hi Belle

    Of course, and if you do ever want to talk about it weíre all here to listen. Otherwise we will just send virtual hugs!

    Itís really brave to open up about this so thank you for sharing how youíre feeling. Iím concerned that you feel like you may be judged and criticised here, though, why is that?

    - Lucy
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  • Lucy307
    replied to Complusions
    Hi Lostsense,

    How are you getting on? Sounds like a confusing time with these compulsions impacting your daily life. Have you spoken to your Care Coordinator at CAMHS about the more extreme compulsions you are getting? Are you talking to them about your self harm too? If not it could be a good place to start in a safe environment. Sending hugs

    - Lucy
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  • Hey @AngellsMe21

    How are you getting on? It would definitely be useful to see your GP or call 111 at least, you don't have to tell them what you think the cause is if you're not comfortable doing so - just how long it's been happening and what's happening. They would probably take a urine sample at the GP, I wouldn't have thought on initial assessment it would get much more personal than...
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  • Lucy307
    replied to Job interview tips - help!
    Congratulations! My couple of bits of advice from doing a bit of work in recruitment...

    - Know and love something about the company - I think this is going to be a fairly easy one as Mind are amazing, but go on their website and pick something you didn't know about Mind that they do, read up on it, if you like it show your passion for that topic! Hope that makes sense
    - Have a...
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  • Lucy307
    replied to Crying in the dark
    Hi Mirabelle,

    I'm so sorry you have been through this. I can't begin to imagine how hard it has been and continues to be. Do you want to talk about Harriet some more?

    Thought I'd share this quote as it continually gives me comfort after losing a loved one last year:
    "Grief, I've learned, is really just love. It's all the love you want to give but cannot. All...
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  • Hey Shaunie

    Completely echo the replies above just wanted to add some hugs well done for going to the police that is really brave let us know how you're getting on.

    - Lucy
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  • Hey @Aife

    My partner and I are guilty of this at times but don't do it much as we understand it's rude. If it were to happen, I would say 'what are you doing there?' and he'll laugh and put his phone down... I'd do the same. Honesty's the best policy and I'm very lucky to be with someone I can be honest with and also someone with the same attitude that there's more to life than our phones...
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  • Lucy307
    replied to (Possible TW) Urges to have sex
    Hey @AngellsMe21

    Agree with everyone else here, having a high sex drive is nothing to be ashamed about! Let us know if exercise or anything else helps. You can always talk to us here. Do you want to talk about the other stuff that's going on too?

    - Lucy
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  • Hey Aife,

    I'd definitely have tried to verify that they are a real person for starters! Probably ask them about their local area, check if they have social media accounts etc and if all looks good I'd meet in an extremely public place. I think I'd be up for getting to know them in person so wouldn't feel the need to know them that well before meeting up - I know from experience people...
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  • Lucy307
    replied to Advice /Sex laws
    Hi Lola25, I'm not 100% sure what the laws are about sex in a car but in my opinion if the police didn't arrive right then and there, it would be very difficult for anyone to report what you were doing (especially if you stopped when you saw the other car)! Try not to worry too much and ruin the memory ! Hope that helps a little!

    - Lucy
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  • Lucy307
    replied to whats youre thoughts on oral?
    Hi shawty1992, I agree with peachysoo here I don't think it's dirty as long as you are both happy with it and are able to enjoy it! That said, remember it's your choice to do whatever you feel comfortable with, and please say no to anything you are uncomfortable with. There is no rush with these things!

    It sounds like the 10/10 line was just to let you know he enjoyed it and I personally...
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  • Hi Shaunie

    I'm so sorry you're going through this . I understand your issue with dates... Mine is New Years Eve/Day. Thought I'd never enjoy myself again, and for a good few years after it happened I would cry through the whole evening. Sending you massive hugs. It does gets better. I don't know when, but it does. Surrounding yourself with loved ones helps. If there's any way you can...
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