What is a tit wank?

My boyfriend recently asked me for a tit wank. I know what it is but have no idea how to do it.

What is a tit wank? 

Let’s start at the beginning, a tit wank (or cleavage sex) is where the penis is placed between the breasts, and moved up and down.

How to give a tit wank

Now that you know what a tit wank is, you probably have some more questions.

If you google ‘how to give a tit wank’ the search results will most likely be slightly confusing. Some people like to squeeze the breasts together while doing this to simultaneously massage the breasts, along with the shaft and head of the penis. But that’s not the only way to do it. Really it’s just down to personal preference.

Only do it if you feel comfortable with it

First of all it’s important to ask yourself if this is something you feel comfortable with. You shouldn’t feel pressured into doing something that you’re uncomfortable with. For more info on how to say no, click here. If you do feel ready, then you should have an open conversation with your partner about what you both want. Communication is a key part of giving the best tit wank, and sex in general. 

Help with contraception

If you’re having sex (doesn’t necessarily have to be penetrative), you should be safe. The Mix have a whole range of resources on safe sex here. You’ll find plenty of articles covering subjects like consent, contraception and sexuality in general.

If you need advice on different types of contraception, you can go along to your local doctor (GP), any other GP (once you have registered there for ‘Contraceptive Services Only’). Your local Brook Centre (for under 25s) or a local Family Planning Clinic can also help. Advice is given in confidence and contraception will be free. You can also buy condoms from a chemist and other retail outlets.

Answered by Brook on 08-Jul-2012

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